Think about it. How many of people who are truly listen to your advice. First of all, did they ask for it?
So let’s stop being too nice and give abundance of advice to someone who don’t really care about it.
I’m not being sarcastic here. But, I’m trying to stop you from getting humiliated and save you from wasting your time for something that not so important.
I hate listening to advice; moreover if the person is pushing me to act in preference her/his advice.
Don’t take me wrong. I knew you are care for me and wanna see me in good place. I do listen to your say. But stop pushing me to take your advice. I knew if I wanted; if I accepted; I’ll likely to take your advice.
All I’m doing is sharing my story to you; even that only happened; if I wanted to do so or it’s naturally find its way. I don’t care even if you listen but I’m merely sharing. That’s it.
The more you are pushing to take your advice; the more I’ll ignore. Trust me, I’ll do.
So let’s be fair to each other. If I nodded and noted your advice; please stop there. Please do not ever put a pressure on me to act because you care for me way too much.
Let’s not cross the boundaries unless I allow you to do so.
My message is simple. I’m ok to listen to your advice but I’m not ok to take your pressure.
You probably would be thinking I’m rude. Let me tell you this. Only those who have the maturity, way beyond a common person would be able to take a straightforward clear cut message.
Think about it. I wish you to be a wiser adviser.